Social Support
Mothers around the world need a lot of help. The phrase "it takes a village" is a human universal (read more here). While many mothers can and do raise children successfully by themselves, we encourage you to find help and reach out to others when possible. Even when it feels difficult to ask for help.
In the 'Emotional Support' section, we offer a collection of resources to find other parents to connect with. In our 'Asking for Help' section, we provide resources for strategies to ask for help and getting over emotional barriers to asking.
Emotional Support
Who in your life is there to listen to you? Who is there to give you confidence in yourself?
A good place to find emotional support is connecting with other new moms. Here are some resources to connect with new parents:
Postpartum International Support (PIS) Group
PIS offers online meet-ups for pregnant and postpartum women, including "Mood Support" to connect with other parents, talk about your experience, and learn about helpful tools and resources. Whether you are going through stress, adjustment to parenting, Baby Blues, or pregnancy or postpartum depression/anxiety.
211 LA
If you are a resident of Los Angeles County, a parenting support group for Spanish-speaking mothers of children 10 years and younger is available. Topics may include self-esteem, setting limits, health and relationships. The groups meet at an offsite location and childcare is provided free of charge for participants. Postpartum counseling for women who are experiencing maternal depression is available through the New Moms Connect program.
Asking for Help
It can be difficult to admit to yourself and others that you need more help than you are receiving. Latina women participating in the Supporting Mothers project shared that often when friends and family are already giving you help, it can be tough to ask for more. Asking for help can be difficult and takes practice. However, it can lead to reciprocal relationships of help that are better for everyone.
Here are some strategies for asking for help.